Domestic Violence: Healthy, Unhealthy, or Abusive?
Greeting’s Readers!
Domestic violence is a type of abusive behavior that is part of a systematic pattern of power and control enacted by one partner against another. Did you know that in Arizona in 2019, there was 96 lives lost due to domestic violence? The severity and frequency of domestic violence vary dramatically case by case, but it does not discriminate. 42.6% of women and 33.4% of men living in Arizona have experienced either intimate partner physical/sexual violence and/or intimate partner stalking. There are laws put into place that protect the community from domestic violence offenders, especially when it comes to firearms. Any individual who has been convicted of misdemeanor crimes of domestic violence is prohibited from carrying a firearm during their probationary period or longer depending on the judge’s discretion. There are also other laws put into place that have been created.
Now knowing what domestic violence is, how common it is in our state, and how you may be protected by law, let’s look at examples of different colored flags in relationships. In the beginning of a relationship, we are preoccupied with getting to know someone and obtaining that connection that we sometimes misjudge yellow or red flags as green flags. Here are the flag colors and examples of behaviors for each:
Green flags (these are great signs of a loving and healthy relationship)
Yellow flags (usually occur prior to red flags and can be a bit confusing)
Red flags (these signs usually indicate an abusive relationship and can get worse overtime)
Here’s how YOU can be a Prevention Partner:
Check out these resources for more information:
It is important that you remain safe and know what to do in case you find yourself or others in one of these dangerous situations. There are a series of resources available free of charge to anyone in need.
I just took the pledge! I am sadly shocked at how many people in Arizona are experiencing or have experienced domestic violence. I am going to have my roommate and partner take the pledge too. I also feel safer knowing that there are laws in place to protect myself and the ones I love.